If you sense that kinds words from you are welcome, share your own positive memories of the animal. I assure you that it’s no easier if it is not sudden. Know that I am thinking of you and offer my condolences. He really loved that Boatswain. Question: How can I ease my daughter's pain in regards to the death of our dog? I hope you are enjoying your day. Our pets are like gifts from God—they come into our lives and bring us such joy without asking for anything in return. I found the details very helpful. When my beloved Stefani passed away, i felt like my whole world crashed and i didnt know how to live on, but thankfully i found a grief support group of dog lovers online called Rainbow bridge. May God give you strength and peace at this difficult time. Here are excerpts from the powerful letter: Dear Drago, Hey, buddy. I have a book upstairs. Answer: It is a difficult situation, and I'm sorry for your loss. And they gave me all the love they had. People live much longer than dogs. Last April I lost my best friend Max he was a little Yorkie but you wouldn't know. It is likely most of her friends of the same age, (I'm assuming she is at university), have also experienced this. Those we love are always close,especially when we need them most.In our hearts, they'll always beyoung, happy and running free.Although they're gone,in our memory, they'll live on. It’s been a week now. For example, when a woman loses her husband she becomes a widow and a man becomes a widower. So sorry for your loss. We had to say goodbye to our 10-1/2 year-old golden girl last month. A quotation can be used to convey thoughts and feelings, but don't forget to add some specific details to your message. Empathy is the most important characteristic to have when writing your pet loss condolences, although it is appropriate at times to use humor for cheer if it's done tactfully. — Helen Keller, "It came to me that every time I lose a dog, they take a piece of my heart with them, and every new dog that comes into my life gifts me with a piece of their heart. Rawtashk kindly gave us permission to share this incredible tribute. Use tact and caution with these, although humor can serve as a great coping tool for the stress of losing a pet: According to the CDC, having pets can lower blood pressure, triglycerides, cholesterol, and feelings of loneliness. Call me when you feel ready to talk or if you need a hug or a shoulder to cry on. Did your friend take their dog for walks on the beach or in the woods? I hope the process of writing your memorial eases your pain a little. He is a runner ( Lab). Days have passed since [Dog Name] left us, but I can still picture his goofy smiles, his loud barks, and his playful eyes! A personal message is always well received and will be kindly remembered. Literally like a month before I graduated he bite my cousins oldest son and he made a big deal about it and I went to church camp and when I came home, naturally I called Sebastian to come say hi to me and my brother walks out of the room and tells me my cousin took him to the pound. Mary Wickison (author) from Brazil on March 17, 2020: I am sorry to hear of your recent loss. I’m sorry. Some of these ideas are specific to a certain type of pet, some are of a religious nature, and some are more generic. One of my friends here is hoping to find a puppy to bring it up to speed as both of her dogs are now about 9. It is, in my opinion, one of the best poems in English ever written and certainly the most endearing regarding the loss of a pet. I don't miss a dog, I miss my dog. Before I had kids I was so attached to our dogs we took them to the UK with us. And then my kidneys felt better! Whether you choose to call them on the phone or send a card or a text message, it can be difficult knowing what to say to ease a friend's sadness following the loss of their pet. Note: The Rainbow Bridge is perhaps the most well-known and frequently referenced poem about the loss of a pet. When they say a dog is man's best friend, it's easy to understand why it's so difficult to lose a great … Sometimes they just need to share their memories or have a shoulder to cry on. ", "Most people treat their pets like friends and family, but I think you treated yours even better. Unknown ***** A Good Dog Never Dies. I still think of her everyday for the past 3 years since she passed on. If possible, try to think of a fond memory or loveable trait to include in your card. I was so sorry to hear of [insert pet's name] 's passing. 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